so many ways of recognizing and measuring love.
He opens car doors for you" "he's a gentle man around you" "he will
want to marry" "he will buy you gifts" "he will not want to hurt your
feelings"he calls you 5 times a day" " he texts you" bla bla
bla. See, any player or good guy can treat you right. If you are
pretty, rich, intelligent, most guys will treat you right. No big deal
really.
Most men will treat you right until they have gotten what they want
from you whether it is sex, one-night stand, side
dish, contact, or marriage. In fact, many men show their true colours
after marriage.
That is why I keep saying this Getting married is a destination,
preserving your marriage is a whole new ending journey entirely!
Everything does not automatically become perfect because of that metal
on your finger or that piece of paper you signed.
1. A Man Madly In love Will Marry You ASAP: Now this is a tricky one.
Like I mentioned in my last thread, men these days do not necessarily
marry because of love. Many marry because they need a wife/help meet
for whatever reasons. However when a man really loves you, he marries
you because he loves you and not because he needs a wife. The
remaining points will help you know if you are going to be a "wife in
need" or beloved wife.
2. People Will Tell You He Loves You: When a man is crazy about you,
your friends, family members, colleagues, associates, and all who have
seen you guys together will tell you. Those who have known him long
before you came into his life will ask you "what have you done to him?
" There will be a noticeable change in him that will surprise people.
If he as a good guy before you came along, he will be even better with
you. If he was a bad guy, he will suddenly melt like butter when he's
with you. There
has to be a special factor. Something unusual. Something that will
make people marvel.
3. Your Intuition Will Affirm This: Females have powerful intuitions.
Always listen to yours. It is hardly ever wrong. If you asked most
woman in bad marriages, they'd admit that they always knew something
was terribly wrong but naively thought it
will get better. You cannot change a man or even make him love you.
You can only awaken/re- awaken the feelings already in him.
4. The Fear Of Loosing You Becomes The Beginning Of Wisdom: He can't
stand the thought of you walking out of his life, he's sure not going
to turn into a vegetable but sister, he's going to do what he can and
avoid whatever he must to make sure you
stay even if he has to give up his priced bachelorhood.
5. He Will Spend On You…… With Pleasure: A guy will be happy to spend
his hard earned cash on you whether or not he gets to sleep with you
or even date you. It may not start immediately but after a while
especially if he's trying to see if you are
materialistic. Give your man sometime while you prove that you are
worth his money.
Love is not a bed of roses. Don't always expect him to be a gentleman.
Why should he always open car doors for you? Are you a learner? Even
Prince Philips doesn't open doors for Queen Elizabeth all the time
when they are not in public! If he's a busy man, a top govt official,
company senior official, successful businessman, etc. he cannot be
calling you everyday. Even if he is a low income earner. BUT he will
always make up in ways that will make it all worthwhile. He cannot
always call you "honey" "baby" etc. Some days he will call your full
name sef "Oluwayemisi come here!" " Chimbusonma I want to eat"
"Nkechiyere don't waste my time" There will be tough times as well.
Times when you will even cry and wonder what you are doing with him,
but these points should console you and assure you that you are on the
right track
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